Is the Thank You Note Dead? (And what to send instead)

The holidays are over. Now comes the guilt. Do you really need to write 20 physical cards?

The Hierarchy of Thanks

Tier 1 (Text): For small gifts from close friends. Include a photo of you using the item.
Tier 2 (Video Message): For gifts from relatives you don't see often. A 30-second "Cameo-style" selfie video is warmer than a letter.
Tier 3 (Physical Card): Required for weddings, baby showers, and anyone over the age of 70.